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Why Family Philanthropy?

“The joy of giving can only be learned through personal experience. It cannot be learned academically. In order to truly discover the joy of giving, you must make a gift,…. Giving is one of life’s great immutable principles.”

(Joanne Grant, Getting to the Heart of the Matter)


Starting early. Mark and Kathy Cleary of Rochester believe that the impetus to give can be learned by children as they grow and develop. Kathy Cleary (above) shares a heartwarming story of engaging their young sons in giving back to their community. 

Family philanthropy is about inviting your children and other family members to understand, share, and build on your charitable values and interests.

It includes learning about charitable opportunities and community issues together, visiting or volunteering for a charity that you care about, and then recommending contributions (grants) and finding out how they’ve made a difference. It reflects the interest and passions of family members and can bring your family together in new ways.

Bob and Katie SykesBob and Katie Sykes took a unique approach to involving their adult children in giving. The Brighton couple closed their fund and diverted the balance into four donor advised funds, one for each of their children and their spouses. The extended family now enjoys regular grantmaking opportunities. Read their story.

Younger children may start on the road to philanthropy by sharing toys, volunteering their time,or writing letters to cheer up people who are sick. 

Looking for ideas to involve your children? For volunteering opportunities, check out VolunteerMatch.org. This new version of  Giving Opportunities, compiled by our staff for fundholders, contains information on local nonprofits that have specific needs to continue their great work in the community. It also highlights agencies' "Wish Lists" of items needed for the holidays or every day.

What constitutes "family" in philanthropy?
A “family” may include: children, siblings, spouses, partners, nieces, nephews, grandparents, cousins, grandchildren, godchildren, friends, and other loved ones.
How can family philanthropy benefit our family?

Rochester Area Community Foundation can help you create a personalized plan for blending your family’s philanthropic goals and passions. We can provide:

  • Education about our community’s issues;
  • Suggestions for effective giving;
  • Resources to enhance your knowledge;
  • Opportunities to visit nonprofits working in areas you care about;
  • Grantmaking tips;
  • Techniques for engaging children of all ages;
  • Impact assessment tools;
  • Facilitation of family discussions about philanthropy; and 
  • Conversations about how your fund continues when you’re gone.

Call us to find out how your family can experience the joy and satisfaction of giving together. Contact Lauren Frank, Director, Philanthropic Services, at (585) 341-4360.

Written Resources
The Discussion Guide offers strategic advice to parents on how to engage their children in philanthropy.

The WhitePapers
PBIG | Family Values, Family Wealth. Inspire, involve and inform your children to help preserve your financial legacy and traditions.


Helpful Websites

NextGen Rochester
Learn about peer-driven philanthropy from young professionals who are impacting the world through their giving.

Youth as Resources
A community-based youth philanthropy and youth voice program is funded by the Community Foundation and Rochester-Monroe County Youth Bureau.

National Center for Family Philanthropy
This site is devoted to the promotion of philanthropic values, vision, and excellence across generations of donors and donor families.